Are You Jealous?

Jealousy Personality Test – 36 quick yes/no questions

Jealousy Personality Test

Jealousy exists in the animal world too. It often springs from instinct and the unconscious, not just culture, upbringing, or logic. Whether you tend to be jealous or permissive, open or closed to the outside world, this quiz will help you identify your jealousy style—and whether a tiger or tigress is hiding inside. Answer the questions honestly with Yes or No. This jealousy test works the same for everyone.

Answer the questions below to find out your jealousy level.

  1. If your partner receives a call from an unknown number, do you immediately try to find out who it is?

    • YES
    • NO

  2. Does one of their lies only make you smile?

    • YES
    • NO

  3. Do you accept when people are very friendly or overly warm with your partner?

    • YES
    • NO

  4. Do you think a selfless friendship between a man and a woman is impossible?

    • YES
    • NO

  5. Have you ever doubted that you’re good enough for your partner?

    • YES
    • NO

  6. Do you believe infidelity in a couple is inevitable sooner or later?

    • YES
    • NO

  7. Does it bother you to see your partner dance with other people?

    • YES
    • NO

  8. If they dress up with special care one evening, do you think it’s to seduce someone?

    • YES
    • NO

  9. At a party, if they mostly talk with another guest, do you sulk?

    • YES
    • NO

  10. Do you think your partner can’t resist temptation?

    • YES
    • NO

  11. Does it annoy you when your partner stares at someone of the opposite sex?

    • YES
    • NO

  12. Have you ever imagined following them without being seen, or recording their calls?

    • YES
    • NO

  13. Does it greatly upset you if they go out one evening without you?

    • YES
    • NO

  14. Have you ever thought about someone: “That person wants to steal my partner”?

    • YES
    • NO

  15. Do you feel flattered when others court your partner?

    • YES
    • NO

  16. Do brief separations from your partner make you anxious?

    • YES
    • NO

  17. Do you think life without them would be meaningless?

    • YES
    • NO

  18. Does it bother you when your partner is very affectionate with someone else?

    • YES
    • NO

  19. Do compliments directed at others irritate you?

    • YES
    • NO

  20. Do you trust your partner?

    • YES
    • NO

  21. Do you agree with the idea that “the heart is strong but the flesh is weak”?

    • YES
    • NO

  22. Do you think your friends appreciate you for who you truly are?

    • YES
    • NO

  23. Within a group, do you feel admired by others—and by your partner?

    • YES
    • NO

  24. At work, do you feel you have the position you deserve?

    • YES
    • NO

  25. Do you often catch yourself observing your partner’s behavior when they’re among others?

    • YES
    • NO

  26. Do you think your partner should be free to do what they want—even without asking your opinion?

    • YES
    • NO

  27. In your family, do you feel you’re treated the same as other members?

    • YES
    • NO

  28. Are your friends more available and affectionate with your partner than with you?

    • YES
    • NO

  29. If they left you, do you think they’d immediately find someone else to replace you?

    • YES
    • NO

  30. Do you trust your friends, but keep your eyes open when it comes to your partner?

    • YES
    • NO

  31. Do you consider yourself unique and impossible to replace?

    • YES
    • NO

  32. Do you often wish to resemble someone your partner likes a lot or considers ideal?

    • YES
    • NO

  33. Do you think that even if they deeply love you, betrayal still can’t be ruled out?

    • YES
    • NO

  34. Can you publicly acknowledge the merits of someone of your own sex if you consider them superior to you in a specific area?

    • YES
    • NO

  35. When things go well in your relationship, are you happy and try to enjoy it without overthinking?

    • YES
    • NO

  36. Do you think Othello is a timeless character?

    • YES
    • NO

  • You scored points

    Very Jealous

    Very jealous illustration You trust neither people nor situations. You’re constantly on alert, collecting any tiny clue to confirm your suspicions. A single glance from your partner at someone else can unleash a storm. Worn down by doubt, it’s hard to enjoy your relationship fully. This fear of abandonment often stems from low self-esteem. Try to relax and let events unfold—there isn’t a rival hiding around every corner.

  • You scored points

    You Know Jealousy

    Moderate jealousy illustration Jealousy isn’t foreign to you. It can flare up after parties, on vacation, or with new acquaintances. You try to channel it so you don’t slip into scenes or sulking—but sometimes it wins, creating tension. Even after arguments, you don’t always feel fully relaxed; a small detail can reignite doubt.

  • You scored points

    Not Jealous at All

    No jealousy illustration Bravo! You belong to the rare group for whom love isn’t synonymous with jealousy. For you, love means loyalty, trust, openness, and independence. You’re confident—your partner chose you, so there’s no reason to believe they want someone else. You expect the same trust in return. If your partner is more jealous, clashes may arise. Don’t be too absolute though: a little jealousy can also signal intense, passionate love.